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Should We Get Engaged?

50 Questions and Stories to Help You Decide with Confidence
Author: Bill and Mindy Meier October 6, 2026
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Should We Get Engaged?

50 Questions and Stories to Help You Decide with Confidence
Author: Bill and Mindy Meier October 6, 2026

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Endorsements

“A thoughtful and practical guide for couples asking one of life’s most important questions.”
—Les and Leslie Parrott, authors, Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts

“Honest, direct, wise, and surfaces otherwise unmentionable topics with grace.”
—Aaron Damiani, rector of Immanuel Anglican Church, Chicago; author, Earth Filled with Heaven

“A gracious, timely companion for discernment . . . marked by theological depth and pastoral wisdom.”
—Brian Mann, national director, Greek InterVarsity

“Most marriage books rush to give answers. This one does something far more demanding, and ultimately more transformative. Drawing from decades of pastoral ministry and counseling, Bill and Mindy Meier offer a carefully curated set of questions—paired with real stories—that guide couples into deeper discernment together. Some questions you’ll expect. Many you won’t. This is not a book to consume, but a companion to walk with as you seek clarity, honesty, and God’s direction as a couple. For seriously dating couples—and the leaders guiding them—this book stands apart by teaching you how to ask what truly matters.”
—Andy Kim, associate conference director, Urbana Student Missions Conference

Description

A Practical Roadmap for Seriously Dating Couples Considering Engagement

You love each other—and you’re talking about marriage. But love alone doesn’t answer every question that matters before engagement. Should We Get Engaged? helps seriously dating couples gain clarity before making a lifelong commitment. Drawing on decades of ministry, counseling, and pre-engagement seminars, Bill and Mindy Meier offer a practical roadmap: fifty key questions (plus five for those previously married), each with a short story showing why it matters. You’ll talk through compatibility, communication, family history, future dreams, health, money, and physical and emotional intimacy—so you can uncover assumptions, spot deal-breakers, and move forward with confidence and build stronger foundations together.

Bill Meier spent more than forty years as a pastor and later taught pastoral counseling at Trinity Evangelical Divinity School. He has a doctorate in marriage and family counseling and, with Mindy, has four married kids and ten grandkids.

Mindy Meier served with InterVarsity Christian Fellowship for thirty-two years, including as a key leader with Greek InterVarsity. She wrote Sex and Dating, earned a business degree from the University of Illinois, and earned a master’s in counseling from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School.

Specifications

  • Imprint: Oaks Press
  • Page Count: 152
  • Trim Size: 5.25 x 8
  • Weight: .46 ounces
  • Interior: 1-color
  • Available Formats: Paperback and eBook
  • ISBN 9781964817194 (paperback)
  • ISBN 9781964817200 (ebook)
  • Library of Congress Control Number: 2026941395

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